ABOUT ME

Hey, I’m Iva.

I’m somewhere between school/college life and “real life,” and honestly? It’s messy, weird, and exciting all at once.

AlmostAdulting is my space to rant, reflect, and figure things out from awkward crushes and hostel chaos to terrifying first exams and that annoying voice in your head that says, “you should have it all together by now". If you’ve ever felt confused, excited, scared, or just meh about growing up, you're not alone.

Let’s talk. Let’s mess up. Let’s figure it out together.

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